When they are even more protective over there personal things, eg phone incase they have a message, photo's ect. Start going out more than they normally would. Cant give you a proper answer on where there going. some people that are cheating accuse the other person of doing things because of their own guilt

I broke up with my partner around Christmas, i refused to have much contact with him and found myself moving on without him, but i never fully moved on, 3 months after breaking up with him i saw him on a night out and we are back together now. Only you will no if you have truly moved on or not x

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Let her go, she obviosuly feels differently towards this new guy than the way she does you. Or because you have been together for so long it could be the new romance stage and thinks she loves him, its up to you if you fight to keep her or let her go.

The fact that they done live near each other anymore and arnt going to bump into each other down the street, she needs to find the courage and tell him!! Especially when he use to have feelings for her before, it sounds like its meant to be, for them to meet again years after leaving school just makes it seem that more likely to be right for them both. I think she really needs to tell her the not knowing must be awful!

Have a look at your relationship and what the arguements start up from, sometimes it can be small things like being under each others feet a lot, maybe have a night out with friends away from each other. Make sure you both have your own freedom, thats important! Try sitting your partner down and discussing why you are argueing, if its just little annoying habits that annoy one and other tell them before it gets that annoying it causes an arguement.

Carry on being yourself, takes things slow. Dont rush in to it. Its a big thing especially when you are best friends, first of all you need to realise if this doesnt work out the way you want it to and he doesnt feel the same you may lose the closeness of your friendship. If you really do feel strongly about this person that speak up and let him know your feelings.

The hurt you have had is because you havent found the right person that respects and cares for you! You will know what love is when you meet that right person. Don't go out looking for love, thats when you will get hurt by jumping in to relationship with the wrong person just because you want to feel loved. Let love and the right person find you. Try and enjoy yourself and let the people that have hurt you before see that you are doing fine without them and they didnt get to you like probably think they have.

strong textTell him straight... try and cut contact, change your number, block him from facebook? Make him see you have moved on and your enjoying your life without him and that he needs to do the same as well.