When you say that “it is what it is”, you are willing to accept facts and you want people to know the real state of affairs. When you firmly state something, you wish others to lend an ear to what you are saying and follow whatever is the current red tape. “It is what it is” shows how emphatic you are when it comes to stating something. Others should make a note of the facts and figures and should operate likewise, keeping all the rules and regulations in mind. “It is what it is” shows how firmly you believe in something that you are advocating. In the words of Nicole Kidman, “I'm not sure what the future holds but I do know that I'm going to be positive and not wake up feeling desperate. As my dad said "Nic, it is what it is, it's not what it should have been, not what it could have been, it is what it is".”
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