Are you looking for something long term? Do you want to become friends & really get to know someone? There's "hard to get" & there's "impossible to get". It depends on what your definition of "get" is? "Easy to get" will turn the guy on fast but it will be over just as fast. If you are looking for a relationship, try to remember the idea behind "playing hard to get". It is "the thrill of the hunt". Here's a fact; "Boys give LOVE to get SEX, Girls give SEX to get LOVE".