In life there is a lesson to be learned in all of your victories and all of your defeats. Don't let things like failed relationships bring you down or stop you from ever wanting to trust another human being again. Forgive those who have abused your trust, those who are supposed to be with you but act as if they are against you, those who have been willing to not only break your heart, but willing to betray you as well.
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When we are dealing with heartbreak, whether it be the heartbreak of leaving a relationship, or the heartbreak of having to move away from our friends and family all that we can think of right then in those moments is how much it hurts, and how much you wish that the change that is taking place, did not and will not take place at all. It is important for you to realize that this time in your life will be a hard one. You will miss it, because right now it is one of the most important things in your life, but eventually the feelings will subside, and you will have memories to hold onto when you want to remember this point in your life.
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Many of us have experienced a bad break up in our lives and know what it takes to get over it, while some of us may just now be experiencing one and feel as if life itself is over and that the pain you may be feeling will never end. Believe those of us with the experience of a bad break up, what you are experiencing right now will end. You must understand that this is just a season in your life right now, and even though the pain you feel may feel unbearable at times, your soul has to deal with letting go a person that you never thought it would have to let go of.
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People do what people actually want to do. This simple statement holds itself to be true in 99% of peoples lives. If a person really wants to do a certain thing, and they have their heart set on it, then more than likely they will accomplish it. This especially holds true in a lot of relationships you may encounter, if you haven't already encountered it. When someone doesn't show up when they say they will, always cancels plans, or just doesn't come around even though they have ample opportunity to, chances are they really don't want to be a part of your life.
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Certain situations arise in lives in which things can not be fixed, and need to be started over. Though giving up on a life into which you put your all into may be one the hardest things to do (if it's not the hardest), it may also be the most beneficial choice. Starting a new life happens everyday to people who split up, get divorced, go bankrupt, lose jobs, lose close loved ones and many other difficult scenarios. It is recommended that before starting over to try to work out all potential solutions, but as most of us know, sometimes there is no better solution than to just start from scratch.
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