I've been having a lot of problems with my mom. She treats me like I'm 5, I can never go out with my friends. I can't wear the clothes I want without her judging me. She won't let me spend the night at a friends house, she won't let me go to parties unless she comes. I can't even go to the mall just to hang out with my friends! I feel like I'm living in my own personal hell. We figth endlessly, it's gotten to the point where I just can't take her shit anymore. I wanna move out so badly. I need my freedon but whenever I talk about it with her, she dismisses it as if it's not even important. We just don't have the same bond we use to have about 3 years ago. I jsut can't concentrate in school with everything that has been going on at home. She gets upset when she sees my bad grades but what can I do? How can I focus on school when she's constantly treating me like shit??? My mom, to me, is a stranger now. I really need help! What can I do?
Well i have to say i was in the same boat as you once with this mom thing.We couldnt get the same point no matter what.Well try to talk to her why she doesnt allow you those things and she should give you a full answer not a short one.Dont scream at each other just try to talk normally.I think she just wanna protect you thats my opinnion.Goodluck :)
maybe you should talk to her about the way you feel and explain to her that your not that young anymore. i understand where mothers are coming from these days because they are protective you see young girls the age of 14 pregnant. i wish my mom would have been this strict on me. but then again i wouldn't be the person i am today. my honest opinion would be for you to set a day where you just tell your mom how you feel about the way she has been treating you lately.