Do I forgive and start over with renewed trust?
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Beau_Bear
Beau_Bear
I have been in my current relationship for a while now! It's been the most amazing thing in the world! No one has ever been able to make me feel so happy and confident! It's intense and fun and the most trusting, non jealous relationship I've ever been a part of or ever even seen! I'm still best friends with my ex but that's just because we were best friends before we had been together! We hang out and this has never been an issue which is nice, because it shouldn't be, I have never even gotten close to cheating! Well it sounds strange but we all get along so well that we stayed over, all of us, two nights last weekend! My love now was in the middle and we all shared my bed, it made sense she was in the middle though! However, there was some snuggling going on with them and it didnt bother me at first! Then it really started to BAD and my old jealous self started coming out which is a side of me I hate! As my ex and I were taking her home Sunday night we dropped her off and started to go to work! I said I had been feeling jealous and should I have any reason to be, she wouldn't answer! I felt like I was gonna throw up and started screaming at her and asked what happened! She made me guess, well there was a couple kisses and some outer layer touching (a little bit). I freaked out and found all of my old ways coming back! I couldn't believe it! We got to work and I threw up outside! I went inside and sat down somewhere and skyped my girlfriend on my phone! She wasn't acting happy but she was acting ok! The whole weekend she told me I had no reason to worry and that it was fine!! It took me a while to get her to tell me! She was crying and said she wouldn't blame me for wanting to break up with her because most people would! That's when I got her to tell me! She cried and said she didn't feel like herself, she has no idea how that happened and that she has never done anything like that before! Well, in my heart I honestly believe she is not that typve person and that she normally would never do that and that she loves me! But it tore me into a million pieces! But I love her! I don't want to leave her! I don't want to give up on our relationship! On Tuesday I saw her again and she asked me to be hers forever, she said she wants me to trust her because that should have never happened and never would again! She makes me feel sooo good! She gave me the most precious ring to her that she NEVER takes off! So my question is do I believe her and continue this relationship with complete trust again or .. What? I don't want to be jealous, it hurts to much and is too annoying! And what should I do about them being friends, do I be ok with it? Or what? Thank you for reading, sorry it's soo long!
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nishah1917
nishah1917 Nishah

take every chance. drop every fea

LUV_MUFFIN
LUV_MUFFIN Aaliyah

Only if she has proven that she is ready to be trusted

Mohd_Aariff_Khan
Mohd_Aariff_Khan Mohd Aariff Khan

Everyone have right to do mistake. you surely bound to give a second chance.

lovlypuravi
lovlypuravi puravi

everybody deserves a second chance..dear..be liberal...life will be smooth

kailapancho_03
kailapancho_03

take every chance. drop every fear :))

Beau_Bear
Beau_Bear Beau Bear

And completely trust again?

florya99
florya99

This relationship has only two choices: either go away from her or start training not to be jealous.

Beau_Bear
Beau_Bear Beau Bear

Which one do you think is more wise?

kyra.chelsea
kyra.chelsea

People aren't always what u want them to be. Sometimes they disappoint u or let u down, but u have to give them a chance first. You can’t just meet someone and expect them to be everything you’re looking for and then be angry when they’re not every hope and aspiration you projected onto them. It’s foolish to believe that someone will be what you imagine them to be. And sometimes, when you give them a chance, they turn out to be better than you imagined. Different, but better. ― Chloe Rattray

Beau_Bear
Beau_Bear Beau Bear

I really like your response! Thank you for taking the time to read my very long question! I just never expected anything like this! So do you think I should be completely trusting again and almost act like this didnt happen because I can't continue to be jealous and ask questions .. It even annoys me, it's just so hard to control sometimes!

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