I do not like to hear that some women or rather girls in this case, could be so shallow about relationships, perhaps it is partially the quality of the guys they meet, as good ones do seem rare to us.

A slightly different angle, humour for helping women survive the worst in men, from a rape crisis centre. I hope it does not offend, I rather like it's wit.

Men;- an attachment you screw on the bed, to help with the washing up.

Nope, if she's using you then probably . But if she really loves you , you'll be more than an accessory. You'll hold a place in her heart .

Its depends on the girl, but yes of course to some woman men are like accessories. Some may wear men like ring and only bring them to show her friends.

Well sad thing is that some girls think like that.

dont be too over confident enough of yourself.. i have only admire you for your eyes, nothing else..

Eyes are a mirror to our soul.

nopes..not at all. but then there are different kind of girls around us..all of them are not same.

Mate, my view exactly! I guess it makes you feel good when that is the case but for avg blokes like me who stands 5'7 tall...it kinda makes you feel like getting stilts to satisfy that hot bird you are chasing. Don't get me wrong, I stay in shape by working out and eating right etc but it still makes you feel hopeless when you hear the girl you like say "I dig taller guys" :( Obviously its about what is inside that counts at the end of the day, but at the beginning its about attraction.

Studies suggest that it is true men go for physical attraction first women are seduced via their ears, nice voice and manner Some of you also have a good line in patter I tend to fall for the character, the recognition of connection, then find the body attractive, little details like the way the hair on their arms flows I'm considered tall I don't wear heels you are taller we could gaze straight into each others eyes but then you wanted shallow hottie?

In some cases that may be true. They just want a guy around that they can look good next to when they go out in public. Someone to go out to eat with and go to movies with, pretty much just to be seen with. Sometimes people are in love with the idea of being in love instead of being in love with the person they are with.