You have to tell yourself to be happy again because you deserve it, and things happen for a reason, even thoe you wish it wouldve had a different outcome.

please dont this again if u r a woman.woman is like a tea bag. he has put u in hot water now u show how strong u r

The person whom you choose to love again will make Your heart learn to take a risk && realize you'll never regret it .

thx sweetie for the advice & i will take and use that

First realize that there is absolutely nothing wrong with you. If someone is not interested in you it is in your best interest to find someone who does love and adore you for who you are. Know that you are worth it, and there are plenty of people who will love you. Never settle for someone who is not treating you and respecting you the way you deserve. Ask yourself what might be in his head or his heart; it takes two people to be in a relationship and even though you feel the way that you do, m

No amount of answers can answer this million dollar question. Simply follow your heart but trust your mind while making that decision.

thx & this is a question i know everyone wants a answer to thats why i posted it on here

its not an easy process it will take time and pain.BUT, somehow you will move on, then one day you might find it in your heart to trust and love again because everybody is not the same.

There is no book on how to do that. If there were then there wouldn't be occupations such as Pyschologists or Counsellors that exist to serve the purpose of helping people understand why hurt can cause significant confusion. Our brain is a complex part of the human anatomy, hence the reason why scientists still don't have the answer on how it works.

I believe when you love someone so deeply, the hurt that you feel after will mirror the same level of love you had for that person. This causes confusion. Not being able to think rationally at times or use logic to convince yourself that there is a better day. You may feel stuck in this ever ending cycle of waking up feeling empty. This does not last long I guarantee it. That emptiness slowly fills up with a new sense of joy, happiness and experiences that you share with friends and family. Allowing you the time to find yourself again. Once found, you'll then know exactly what is it that you want. What it is that would make you happy. Meanwhile, you'll be so into yourself and the idea of making yourself the priority for a time being.

Whether or not you'll meet someone along the way, you'll know that when that time comes it would be up to you to allow yourself to fall deeply in love again. No such thing as love at first sight, but when you meet that person that just simply strikes all the right heart strings then bang! you're in love again and its a new love to experience.

Good luck.

Forgiveness and trust.

Sadly, you don't. You may want to. You may tell them you do. But you can never restore the depth of love and trust that was taken away

Know that no two people are the same.. Getting hurt once or twice does not mean you will get hurt again.. I've been hurt millions of times and I still get out there after awhile and try again..

Don't go looking for love... just give yourslef and your heart time to heal and the love and trust will come when someone who wants and deserves it looks for it in you

aww thx

You slowly start over, and start fresh... But if it happens again in the process, you need to love yourself enough to let go.. Because life is to short to be hurt and heart broken, especially if it wasn't your fault. Good Luck & God Bless

thx 4 da advice

If there is trust there is hope without it all hope is lost.

I can hold back my tears and hide them with a smile but I can't hide that hole in my heart.˙·٠•●♥ ♥●•٠·˙

so true...u can only go so long

Only time can heal a broken heart..

Everybody Finds their own way to Heal up their Broken Hearts but one thing we should always remember that further in our life wheather we are able to Trust or Love anyone again but we should always be Cautious of the possibility of re-cheated by that someone.

You have no choice but to move on, find something to do with your time concentrate on yourself rather than a relationship and soon you will find your way in life and he or she wont be on your mind you will find somebody one day evreyone does (unless you dont do anything) but dont feel depressed because of this THINGS HAPPEN FOR A REASON maybe this happened so you could find someone else you will love and hopefully they will not treat you the way this person did.

thx

You have to learn to forgive the person who broke your heart. Forgive, let go and move on.

i would not forgive anybody who broke my heart, just remember this was not your fault and you should be glad this happened sooner than later it was just not ment to be. and never get back with this person dont concentrate your time and energy for them love and take time for yourself!