I would say to just date him for awhile and once y'all are closer he can introduce you to his kids. It could be tough but if you are patient and understanding, it can work out. If you cannot do it, id say move on.

if you truly love this man you will accept him and his kids as a package because if he is a loving father he wont go with someone who wont accept his kids , if you can get along great with them thats fine and they will look on you as a nice person who respects there father and wants to look after him, if you dont acknoledge them and are just all over the man then the relationship wont work out. besides if he wants kids with you then you can all be one happy family and that would be great honey:)

well...it's a very serious problem dating a guy with kids...the best thing you can do is to tell the guy to send the kids to thier gran parents while you keep visiting them at times or if you can, you can still date him while the kids are with him but try to be their mom and calm your temper...thats if the guy has lost his wife :))...alah

Its a big sacrifice not only for you but for the Father and his children. I was talking to a girl once with 3 children and she never really let me meet her kids until things got serious because you cant just walk into those kids' lives and expect to walk away if the relationship goes sour. They will most likely look at you as a mother figure & the last thing you want to do is break their hearts. Approach this situation carefully and make sure you are 100% into it. If so, then it will be amazing.