I'm Getting Married, But I Don't Want Children Right Away...What Should I Do?
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chelsea.thomas45
chelsea.thomas45
Me And My Fiancee Have Been Together For 3 Years And Are Getting Married Soon He Keeps Telling Me He Want's Kids Right Away But I Want o Wait And See How Things Go After Were Married And I Also Need To Finish College. What Sould I Do?
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d.crump
d.crump Destinee

do what makes u happy and comfortable. if ur not ready then it should be no rush. take it easy. im sure ur fiancee wont be upset.

shopping.joanna
shopping.joanna

make him a sandwich then say "i have fofilled my womanly duties i made u a sandwich now,...babe...NO CHILDREN NO COMPRENDO " then bite his sandwich and walk away

YoungJ23
YoungJ23 Cornelius

if i see a Beauty Queen'i will come to them with respect and true feelings with my spoken words

Francine377
Francine377 Francine

You need to express how you feel. If he really does love you, he'll understand. (:

EnhanceDreams
EnhanceDreams

I would talk to him and let him know what you just told us. You are still in college so that is important, there is no need to start a family immediately, you need to be financially stable too so let him know these things and talk to him. I am sure he will understand and Congrats!

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chelsea.thomas45
chelsea.thomas45 Chelsea

Thank You I Realii Appreciate All You Help.

bebaa
bebaa tyffany canuelas

you should tell him how you feel and try to agree on something you should both respect each others feelings so it should all work out in the long run. i mean he will never know bout you not wantin kids right away if you dont tell him and that will lead to fights in your marriage.. but i do think its good that you wanna see how marriage affects your relationship. and to wait a little bit. theres no need for rushin things that should at least be talked through and could be planned.

giftthabest
giftthabest Gift Adugbo

Hmm well. i must say he has his own reason and you have your own too. The problem here is that you're still in college. But you can tell him that you want to finish your education first before that, that's if it's very important. If he insist on complaining about having a kid then that's his own problem. If he really loves you he gatto respect you and understand you feelings. Do what your heart desire, that's all.

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