yes yes it is

im not understandin that..."/

To push him to work, Yes. To sit him down & talk it out. :)) no/

Absolutely not. Family first!

I would say that the husband needs to learn how to embrace change in his work and personal life and make the transition to better himself. Then again you have to do what you have to do to put food on the table. Maybe he should try to find a steady compromise where he can equally divide his time between running the business and taking care of his family.