thats life

we all judge others whether we want to admit it or not.BUT,when you constantly doing it and you make people feel like crap then that is just wrong.

If someone fails or make mistakes, rather than judging or criticizing that person- why not those people who sees themselves able,better & capable help him find his way out of failure. If we continue on pointing out, we'll never be able to get the job done. If you really think your better than someone, you'll never be afraid to share your knowledge since it's something which cannot be bought nor steal. And always, never look down to others unless you're helping them up :]

instead of admiring we start judging others coz we knw they are doin smthng diff, smthang we cannot we.Thats wts makes us feel jealous.

We can judge another person only if we are able to read the person's mind. When we thoughtthat person did it because of the reason we speculate, to that person, it may not be the case. When we see this reality, it is possible to understand that, we are not in a position to judge anyone, as especially when we judge someone bad what comes out are the negative attitudes inherent to us. This does not mean that we should learn to judge everyone positively no matter what they do. I thik we do not have to judge anyone, we should be mindful about who we are, not who another person is. No matter how hard you try you will not succeed in finding out who another person is.

Don't Judge Life by One Difficult Season - A short and very very meaningful story.Read on and have a great weekend. There was a man who had 4 sons. He wanted his sons to learn not to judge things too quickly. So he sent them each on a quest, in turn, to go and look at a pear tree that was a great distance away. The first son went in the winter, the second in the spring, the third in summer, and ...the youngest son in the fall. When they had all gone and come back, he called them together to describe what they had seen. The first son said that the tree was ugly, bent, and twisted. The second son said, “no – it was covered with green buds and full of promise”. The third son disagreed; he said it was laden with blossoms that smelled so sweet and looked so beautiful, it was the most graceful thing he had ever seen. The last son disagreed with all of them; he said it was ripe and drooping with fruit, full of life and fulfillment. The man then explained to his sons that they were all right, because they had each seen but only one season in the tree’s life. He told them that you cannot judge a tree, or a person, by only one season, and that the essence of who they are and the pleasure, joy, and love that come from that life can only be measured at the end, when all the seasons are up. If you give up when it’s winter, you will miss the promise of your spring, the beauty of your summer, fulfillment of your fall.Don’t let the pain of one season destroy the joy of all the rest. Don’t judge life by one difficult season. Persevere through the difficult patches and better times are sure to come some time or later.

very well said..

we judge people because they can do better than we do!