i really want to go to Dubai, but in my heart, i still want to go to my home first. Since i arrived from kuwait, I stay here in manila. Then process my papers for dubai, I already have visa and contract. I miss my family soooo much...but i dont want to see my ex there...cuz if we meet again, maybe i'll fall for him again....:'(
If you don't love your ex, then forget him. But what I would do, is visit family. Family comes first. After you spend some time with them, if your ready then go to Dubai.
But thats just my opinion. It's your choice.