NO...NO..NOOOOOOOOOOOOOO......STAY FAR FAR AWAY!!! HE WON'T CHANGE...FOR YOU OR NOBODY ELSE....THAT'S WHY YOU EX-ED HIM...KEEP HIM IN YOUR RECYCLE BIN...AND LEAVE HIM THERE. YOU DESERVE BETTER THAN BEING SECOND PICKINGS....THINK ABOUT IT.

will I don't know you in really like and I don't even know him to my friends had the same problem so they tell me what to do if im in that problem -I never been in that problem - they say to still be friends with him and tell him a lie like say O im sorry I got out of the shower or I was helping my mom something like that -I do that sometimes- so If he asking you are we still friends or whatever think about it do you want to be friends with him?

What fools guys are... Be glad your single... that you can actually find a man that treats you right and not be an ass-hole like him.

tell him that you dont want to be friends. but if u do want to try to be friend tell this kid to leave you alone for a change

Sometimes its ok but then it can be awkward. Live your life. Living is the best revenge. If he really likes you and want to be friends he'll come around.

I think being friends with an ex is okay, but don't do nothing stupid to put a strain in it....don't hang out with him much and don't talk to him much...im in that same place...he wasn't worth it if you guys only dated a month. just try it and if its uncomfortable then stop the friendship and move on and find someone who is better to keep:)

Don't look back. He obviously didn't love you sweetie. If you can't be his ONLY girl... he doesn't deserve you. He wants you to be his fallback girl. You should never allow yourself to be a guy's second choice or backup plan. You should be his everything and his ONLY option. He should want noone other than you. It's going to be tough but take it one day at a time. You're still young and you have nothing but time. :) It may seem as though the world is over... but it is true... there is always something better out there. Don't lose yourself while waiting for someone who doesn't deserve you. Ignore his calls and messages. It will be hard but it will be worth it in the long run. And when you feel the urge to text him... text someone who will make you laugh or smile instead of him who will only hurt you and make you cry. Keep yourself busy. Don't waste your time on him when there could be someone right in front of you worth more. :) Good luck sweetie! Keep your head up and love yourself and respect yourself first!

Thank you so much.! That was by far the best answer I got. Thank you for the help and support.

Don't be friends if it hurts to much, the friendship relationship after that won't exactly be perfect. I think you should text him back and say we can try