When you say that you are over someone, you intend to say that you have forgotten someone and erased all his or memories from your mind. It is very difficult to come over your ex in case of a broken relationship which goes kaput. But the sooner you try to get over your previous relationship, the better it is. One has to understand that life moves on and is never going to stop. No one is that indispensible that you cannot do without that person. So, if your relationship goes kaput, try to nurse your wounds as early as possible. The faster you can claim that you are over your ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend, the better it is for you. In the words of Kirsten Dunst, “Boys frustrate me. I hate all their indirect messages, I hate game playing. Do you like me or don't you? Just tell me so I can get over you.”