Don't Sacrifice Your Self Respect For A Relationship

Sometimes we have to be willing to let go of the relationships that do us much more harm than good. Too many times we work so hard in life to only be discouraged and told by others that we should be grateful for even having them in our own lives. I would much rather be alone than deal with someone who makes me not want to feel loved.

What we feel isn't based on what we actually go through, it is based on what we represent in our heads when we think about what we are going through. Our interpretation to each situation means everything. At the end of the day, if we keep receiving negative signals from the people that we are in a relationship with, we shouldn't just avoid these feelings, we have to know that a change is needed.

Deal with the change that is needed. Don't pretend that your relationship is working out when it isn't, if it isn't going great, dont sacrifice your dignity.

Some people just like to have their cake and they like to eat it too. Never make someone a priority that is only choosing to make you an option. You are better than that! You are a unique soul, a temple of righteousness, and a miracle of the almighty. Your life on Earth is limited and it is because of this that you shouldn't waste your time by giving it to others who have no desire to return it in an equal manner.
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Life is full of opportunity, if we don't seize the ones that we know our hearts want us to, then what exactly are we doing? We have to let our pride and ego in many instances in life, especially when it relates to showing our feelings to someone that we care about. We never really know what a person may say when we tell them that we love them, but we can't let that hold us back.
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We have to learn to leave alone the people who will bring nothing more to our lives than torment. Sometimes we go through life, and we meet people that we establish connections with before or after we know that they probably aren't the best people for us to connect with, and continue to live our lives with them trying to turn them into who we want them to be.
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Loving one person forever is a goal that we all aim to do, or at least it should be. Love is something that is given with the intent to never be broken or destroyed. Just because you know how to start a love, doesn't mean that you know how to stay with a person you love forever. When we love someone we have to be willing to love them forever. Love isn't something that endures for a while, love endures forever.
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One of the biggest mistakes we can make in life is to lose ourselves in a relationship by trying to become someone that other people want us to be. If you have to change who you are to make a relationship work, your relationship will fail anyway. Either you wont really be happy inside of it, because you can't think or act as yourself, or the other person you are trying to appease wont be happy because you aren't enough of the person that they want you to be.
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