If you're a woman trying to get your ex back, you've likely taken the "desperate times call for desperate measures" approach, causing you to do all kinds of unfortunate things, including "the walk of shame" and the dreaded "drunk dial". These unflattering behaviors will hardly win his affection back after a breakup. Your antics make you look like a doormat, and will ultimately push him away.
I know how excruciating it feels when you still love him after your relationship ends
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