Accept good, bad and ugly sides of you, everybody has them. All of these aspects make you who you are. When there is complete acceptance of self, one experiences a feeling of contentment within and that will naturally bring out a person brimming with self confidence and self esteem. Keep telling yourself, I accept myself just the way I am. Positive affirmations are known to have a great effect .When you focus too much on all things going wrong, it can pull you down.