Inculcate Positive Attitude toward self.And the best bet is to remain cool & calm in every given situation.The best way to remain cool & calm are not something that comes to you, it is something you create. Waiting for something to change in order to be happy is waiting to live your life. It is not what happens to you that counts. It is how you react to what happens to you. When you adopt a positive attitude, life becomes a rewarding adventure instead of something to get through.