It really gets frustrating when you work hard in planning for something and then things dont turn out the way you want them to. Well, you have to accept that life can be ironic sometimes. It feels as if life likes playing cruel jokes on us by giving us the total opposite of what we actually want to happen. But you have to remember that you cannot always have your way. Even if you have a plan, it may not be what is best for you. It is best to trust Gods plan and know that no matter what happens, He knows what is best for you.