Its biggest ironies is how often people complain about their circumstances, yet rarely do anything about them. It's not that they don't have good intentions, or the desire for change but fear of failure makes one scary. Even when we're unhappy with our current situation we may not take positive decision because of fear of making the wrong decision, combined with fear of risk, lack of energy to work toward our goals, lack of confidence in our abilities and thats make us to stay locked in our old habits and routines. To come out scary situation begin to take small, low-risk chances whenever possible despite discomfort. Be optimist and look for positive outcome even in worst situation.