Just be honest with yourself. The more you admit to yourself your true inner most feelings and thoughts, you will gain a deeper understanding and love of yourself which we know must come first.
Honest to gives us true awareness about ourselves and is the foundation for self-love. When you are not in denial about yourself and know who you are you can accept yourself more. Try to keep a sense of humor, compassion, and love & respect towards all. Dont hold anything back from yourself as the relationship with yourself is the most important.