Love is hard. But anything worthwhile is, right? When sh.. hits the fan, and youre hurt beyond all belief, and youre crying and screaming and wanting to beat them because of what they did, but all you can think of is finding out why they did it, working on your relationship, and putting everything in the past to start all over again it doesnt make you stupid or weak. Just know that. It makes you stronger than most, because you wont give up. All your thoughts turn on you, other people throw their advice at you whether theyve been in a similar situation or not, and the only person you want to talk to is the one who hurt you; thats real. That means something. And if they dont want to work on it with you, then you just need to hold your head up high and move on, because fu.. everyone else, at least you tried. Youre stronger than you think. If youre in a committed relationship, married or not, if you love each other, and I mean TRULY in love with each other, you can make it through