More fear than courage will always make you go back to old habits even if its not wise. Fear of taking chances into new opportunities prohibits us from finding true happiness with someone new. How do we know if we dont try? What if we tried numerous times to wrestle with unfixable problems in the past thinking we can still change it? When we are scared to try new things all we need is quote's of inspiration as excuses to twist into justifications to convince ourselves and others why we continue to live in the past again. Humans of extreme impulse and reactive emotions do these things in order to feel less guilty about themselves and the immoral choices they selfishly make. We all do these things at certain points in our life. Whats crucial is that we minimize this outlook as much as possible and to be honest with ourselves and to refrain from settling with worldy comforts of selfish wants and pleasures.