So you think you might have found that someone special that you've been waiting for. Well pay strict attention to their special relationship with their family, how special or important their family is to them starting with the time they spend with them, the minutes, the hours being the most important and the rest will fall in place. The best gift anyone could give their family, especially their kids is their time and if for no good reason its being spent elsewhere where family should be their specialty and first priority think where you'll be with that someone special. If family isn't rightfully first where do you think you will be.....move on and let them find who they deserve.