The first step towards getting somewhere is to arm yourself with stable state of your mind. Learn to be patient in adversity & have courage enough to take any eventuality in your stride. No matter how many times one may breakdown, but there is always a inner voice which whispers you are yet not done away, get up & empower yourself with fighting spirit. The most difficult phase in life is when we breakdown & give up the fight. Its because we deny ourselves of our inner strength. Take every failure as stepping stone of success & be architect of your destiny.