You have one mother when you are born and if she is good to you, you love her to her grave. You never look at another mother with lust, envy, jealousy, fantasy or motive. You are content with what you have..maybe because you had no choice. Maybe we should also be born with the partners we say 'i do' to. Maybe then, you will love them with the purity that you have loved your mothers with. Maybe then, you will be content.