You know what pisses me off? When dudes say why are you a virgin? I say I'm not none of these other females who lay up with just anybody! I have some respect for myself, some dignity! I don't want to be that girl who lays up with just anyone. I want him to be the one I marry and share the rest of my life with..Where is a guy that will appreciate that and encourge me and not pressure me? Where are you?