Your heart and mind are overflowing rivers of feelings and thoughts. You can create something, or destroy something by expressing them out. You are the pillar of those thoughts. You can unleash them, aware and with full responsibility of whatever the consequences might be. either you end up hurting someone or yourself. In the end, your actions justify your true intentions. But for as long as you deal with every thoughts and actions with sensibility, you can never be wrong. Ironically, every thoughts and actions created are generally for acceptance purposes. It is so hard to be real and be with your true self in a world where you are being accepted or judged based on what you can or cant give for others. That is the core of the problem why inasmuch as you wanted to be real, you couldnt, in fear of losing that acceptance you most desired for. Because deep inside you, you are so scared to be alone.