Only the truest of people will be the ones that speak highly of you behind your back, instead of speaking negatively against.

A real friend is someone who sees your flaws and your weaknesses, and is committed to helping you make these weaknesses your strengths. A true friend doesn't much speak behind your back in the first place, and when they do so, they only speak of you out of love, even when someone is insisting that they spew hate.

A true friend is a friend that understands the importance of a true friend their selves, and will hold one they consider as a true friend to the standards that they exhibit in their friendships as well.

Don't waste too much time dealing with those who you know will never be your true friends, and realize the warning signs when someone whom you thought was a true friend, isn't necessarily acting like one.