Ever been in this position? A lot of us have and it is a very difficult position to be in. It is hard to hold on to something that you know is weighing you down, and preventing you from living a healthy positive life, but at the same time it is hard to just let go of someone that you hold so dearly to your heart. There is no right or wrong answer to this equation presented in many of our lives, and everyones situation though similar, is different and unique.

Try to remember why you are holding on to this person, are they encouraging and uplifting your life, or are you just holding on to this person because you are trying to remain loyal to promises that you made to them and to yourself. If you are holding on just because you are too loyal, too scared, or just too used to being with someone, know that you are a special person, and that you deserve to be treated as such. Never let your circumstances hold you back from your dreams, and remember to make the best decision for yourself and your happiness, and no one else's, we have to be a little selfish sometimes!