Andy Warhol's quote about how things get boring and mundane in life is only true if you let it become true. Sure pieces of art and material things may become old, and boring after a while unless they hold some sort of sentimental value to us, but the relationships we share with ourselves and with the circle of people around us should never get boring. In order to avoid this, we must be as spontaneous as possible. Try taking doing one spontaneous thing for your lover weekly, including but not limited to, taking them out to a place you know they love but they know you hate.

Try new adventures with your friends such as rock climbing, visiting sites out of town, and maybe even seeing a genre of movie you probably would never see. Also make sure you keep your own life interesting, treat yourself to a nice dinner alone, or take yourself shopping if it is not something you normally do. Keep the spice in your life and in your relationships, and it will be very hard for them to lose meaning.