Learning to love makes us deal with loss in a very upfront way. Many times we try to hold on to love when doing so only digs the hole of despair deeper for our own lives.

Moving on from a person whom you really love can be painful. Things get tough when you realize that the person you wish to spend a lifetime with isn't a person that you can ever grow with.

Devoting your time and energy towards a person or situation that you will never be able to change alone, is a maddening process. This insane method of trying to manipulate a situation into what you want it to be often never works because it is almost impossible to change a person who doesn't desire to do so.

Let the pain and weight of the loved one who refuses to change leave your life, or you will never find true peace or happiness.