Ultimately what is meant to be, will take precedent over many things that we feel may be more important in our lives. There are things in our lives that would happen no matter what choices we make, and no matter what we do. Things like sudden deaths by people that we never thought would pass in certain ways, people's feelings changing for us in an irreversible fashion, and other events that life seems to throw our way, are things that we simply just aren't able to control.

For some eerie reason, we are all at some points in our lives, kidnapped by fate and its will. Think of your life as a small raft in the middle of the ocean headed towards a destination. We are able to have some control in the direction of our lives, but ultimately due to storms and other factors the manner in which we get there may not be totally up to us, we will be forced to make adaptations in our plans.

The same goes with life, though it sometimes throws us curveballs we must continue to press on knowing that if we believe that it is meant to be, it will be.