Well, one of the select few that you've told has obviously broke thier promise to you and has told another person. Thats how rumors get started. So, I'd say that one of your friends are talking behind your back. What you need to do, is get the select few people that you told the secret(s) to together at once and ask them whose been doing it. It will eventually come out in the long run. One of them will slip up eventually. It's sad how you can't trust hardly anyone anymore. Seems like people are just out to either put you down or hurt you. Just keep a close watch on them, they will mess up eventually. Hope all goes well though. Best wishes.
sblanc22