Our Parents are valuable & always respect of them.
Here, you not see your father very long time of 12year, it means you spraded your last 12year with your mom & I think your mom very care you.
so, I think first you ask your Mum for above subject than you understood what a metter for this happen & after take decision..
i am not tell you k you trust on ur father yes/no.. but try to understood your parent's believing..
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