Sorry.it's always good to study the somebody b4 adding yourself rather than accepting him then you do the studies.i know you really love your boy,do him a surprise take him out,let him tell you the things he need from you also let him know all what you need from him as his baby.promise to fulfill his wish and him to promise you.if that you think won't work the matter out,use his close friend.if that did not work,tell him bye.
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