How can she know if the two are happy? I never listen to the word of rules because most of it is just stupid. If they are married that doesn't mean they are happy. To tell you more, they could live in hell. what's then? What I would do, is tring to become a friend to him, of course having nothing in my head but the attempt to find out if he is happy. If yes - than I'd get the hell out, if no - then what the hell? many people get married first, and then think what the heck they are married for..
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