Painful Memories

When you lose someone you love, either by choice or just by circumstance, it is inevitably very difficult on a person emotionally, physically, and spiritually. The grief from a break up, or the death of a close loved one is obviously a very trying time for a person, and can be some of the hardest days of a person's life. There are a few things to remember when going through situations such as these.

Remember that it is okay to grieve, crying is a good way to release the pain of losing someone, and laughing at the good times and fun memories you shared is also a good coping mechanism. It is also important to remember that everything happens for a reason, and to take everything you learned from the relationship you shared with that person you just broke up with, or lost unexpectedly, and use that life experience to better yourself and your future. Though it may be fresh on your mind just try your hardest to remember that this is just a season in your life, everyone faces difficulties and setbacks, but it's how you overcome them that makes you who you are.

Everyone is different, and though sometimes people are able to make it through extended periods of time without seeing each other, doesn't mean that all couples will last. When both parties in a relationship remain committed to long distance relationships equally with fire, the relationships usually tend to last, at least much longer than most long distance relationships seem to.
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Sometimes in our waking lives we are confronted with the decision of either making the best out of a relationship by hoping that the person that we want to really care for us, starts to really care for us, even though making someone love you after a while isn't always the easiest thing to do.
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As the quote says it feels good to be loved and for someone to show you how much that you mean to them on a regular basis. When you are special to someone you should feel that you are special to him or her. We should all be treated as the kings and queens that we are by those that we love. When somebody that we love is willing to show us how much they love us by even just doing the simple things such as drawing our baths, or giving us flowers, or taking us out to eat, we feel like we are appreciated.
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Refusing to be in a place with someone that you don't necessarily want to be with them in life can lead to hurting someone worse later on by doing the things that one is actually interested in doing, and being with the people that one is actually interested in being with. Remember that being the pain that someone remembers may not always work out best for you, and sometimes it is better for a couple to go their separate ways while they are still able to if they know in their hearts their isnt to be much of a future involved.
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Sometimes we are just put into a person's life to help build them up! In fact when we decide to enter into a persons life this should be our only motive! Why enter into somebody's life for any other reason? Too many of us have been beat down by life, and we just need someone to help us get back up on our feet so that we can continue to move forward again. If this makes a person love you because they get the opportunity to see how awesome of a person you are, then that is wonderful, but don't make that your number one motive.
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