No matter what I do I always forget to forget you.
Doesn't it seem as though we all have that special someone who may have left from our lives months to years ago but still seem to stay on our mind. If you don't have someone in your life as such right now, you more than likely will, and this is just a normal part of existence on this earth.
A lot of times it is best for us to judge the character of a person by their actions instead of just by their words and what they want you to believe. When we look at the actions of a person we look at the real heart of them, because usually the actions a person commits are the actions closest to their hearts.
In different instances in our lives it is easy to stop pursuing a relationship that we know that if we put a tad bit more effort towards would blossom into a heavenly flower of infinite beauty, because of the walls that one or both parties is putting up. Sometimes people that have been hurt in the past or whom are afraid of giving someone a chance because they never want to be hurt, choose to put walls up in order to prevent this from happening.
You were born because you are going to be important to someone.
Every one of us is going to be a special person to someone we meet in our lives. That doesnt necessarily mean that you are going to grow up and find your Mr or Mrs. Right at the perfect age of 25. It may mean that by following your dreams or goals that you set up for yourself in life that you inspire a nation to do the same. It may mean that as a single father or mother, the most important subject(s) of your life your children will look at you as a superhero.
Its really hard to decide when you're too tired to hold on, yet, you're too in love to let go.
Ever been in this position? A lot of us have and it is a very difficult position to be in. It is hard to hold on to something that you know is weighing you down, and preventing you from living a healthy positive life, but at the same time it is hard to just let go of someone that you hold so dearly to your heart. There is no right or wrong answer to this equation presented in many of our lives, and everyones situation though similar, is different and unique.
If you aren't happy being single, you will never be happy in a relationship. Get your own life and love it first, then share it.
Just because you are single doesnt mean that your life is over. In fact as a newly found single person in this world, you are at a great point in your life, to let your hair down, and have some fun! Without being in a committed relationship, you are without commitment to anyone but yourself. So make some new commitments to yourself, sit down and set up a plan this year to do things like take trips out of town and visit places that you have never been to and want to see.
Love isnt when you can name a million things you love about the person. Love is when you cant even find the words to describe how you feel about them.
Have you ever loved someone so much and wanted to tell them how they make you feel but just couldnt find the right words to tell them exactly how you feel? Plenty of us that have experienced love have experienced the same thing and trust me you arent alone.
Every girl has three guys in her life. The one she loves, the one she haters and the one she can't live without. And in the end, they're all the same guy.
Trying to understand love is like trying to understand life as we know it, and is something that we will probably never truly all the way understand. What I have learned from my own personal relationships and from my elders who have been married or with the same person for at least ten years is that even though you may love your significant other, there are going to be differences in opinion, and arguments sometimes, there are going to be places you want to go that they might not want to and vice-versa, but at the end of the day there should be no one else you would rather be in bed with than your significant other.
Message to my ex: we are both beautiful & great people who just happened to bring out the ugly in one another at times.
Sometimes in our lives we are confronted with a huge problem, after giving a considerable length of time after breaking up, just when we think we are over someone we find ourselves feeling as though we cant make it without our ex lover. We are faced with the huge decision of trying to renew a relationship with someone who may not necessarily be willing to do the same, or not trying at all and basically just cutting our losses.
It's hard when you miss someone so much, and you can't do anything about it. Because having that space between the two of you, is the only way to make things right.
Missing someone, especially someone that we love dearly but cant be with like we would like to, is a difficult part of life that we all have to deal with. Whether in the event of a loved ones death, or a bad break up, it is hard being without someone who was once there for us, and who we never thought in a million years wouldnt be there. Times like this we just have to be strong, and rely on the memories we shared with this person to help us grieve and to comfort us.
