If you truly love this man you will accept him and his kids as a package because if he is a loving father he wont go with someone who wont accept his kids , if you can get along great with them thats fine and they will look on you as a nice person who respects there father and wants to look after him, if you dont acknoledge them and are just all over the man then the relationship wont work out. besides if he wants kids with you then you can all be one happy family and that would be great honey:)
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