To make your dream a success Replace I can not with I Can. Stop reprimanding yourself instead compliment yourself. After all you deserve happiness. Visualize your goal. Make an effort to go for it and always stay positive that it can be yours. Never succumb to adverse situation with believe all the reasons why I cant do .Negative self talk will deprive of fighting spirit & will make you to give up all initiatives. Prepare yourself to take any eventuality in stride with confidence. This will help you to move confidently in direction of your dream, It is your dream which matters most to write your success story.