Loving when you are ready to love instead of just looking for love because you are lonely is a very important lesson of life that we should all take heed to. Love is simply a part of life that should not be forced. Sure it is alright to try to find someone that we are compatible to, but when we try to force love out of a situation it will never work. You simply can not force chemistry, and being able to tell someone that you love them doesn't always mean that you truly love them.
Some of us fall in love with the idea of being in love, and in turn rush to find someone to love, without actually loving them. In order to avoid this, let love come to you, and take things slow when meeting someone new. Love will happen when it is capable of happening, whether it be in a short amount of time, or long amount of time, love runs on its own time.
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