When "normal" comes up, I like to remember the words of Whoopi Goldberg: "Normal ain't nothin' but a cycle on the washing machine." It is an illusion created by statistics. We're all abnormal in some way or other. When people tell you to "act normal", they have in mind a standard based on their own abnormalities.
Anyone whose behavior is worth emulating won't need to say anything, b/c their mere example will inspire you to follow it. As for the rest, let your freak flag fly.
ORIGINALLY_ME13