I'm not going to change for the one's who don't appreciate what I do for them. I'm done using my life as a threat for people to like me. I have important things to do. And if you want my help, your gonna have to take it or I won't listen. That's the way I roll. I've been nice to Everybody and I get walked on. You think this is me being rude? no, this is the monster YOU created. So again, if you want me to listen then you listen. Quit doing stupid stuff to yourself over problems that you don't need to take. if a family member killed or has tried, ok I understand, but that was in the past, you don't need to put yourself down for it. Now pick yourself up and grow up!