We have to take away lessons not only from our victories, but from every single one of our defeats as well. If a person is willing to take away something from each mistake, each failure and each loss, then a person has not lost at all. We all have to take defeats in life, because life would be meaningless if we never failed at anything. That doesn't mean that we aren't allowed to emerge from our failures as better than ever.

Choose not to lose the only plausible way, take a lesson out of every single loss you experience in your life. Never continue to fear losing again, because you now know what it takes to achieve victory and to avoid defeat. Remember that sometimes making mistakes are sometimes the best way to be taught a lesson, so be confident in your experience, you will not lose!