You know what,this has 3 stages. First judge if this is merely an attraction.the second & third are Love&Commitment.
Yes this is the world where lovers get screwed. But if u both love each,you have the option of changing ur fate. I hope u got it
Loving is not the problem, how come you force not to love someone if your heart still does. The problems is your are still young to be IN RELATIONSHIP, cause older man easily take advantage from you, just be careful girl.