Obviously, I can't speak for all women, but you're hardly the first guy to point out this phenomenon, so here goes: A lot of women subconsciously try to relive their relationship with their father with their boyfriend/husband/lover/whatever. Whatever was wrong, or amiss, or less than perfect in their relationship with their dad is often what is wrong in their romantic relationships - only this time, a woman's subconscious is telling her, this time, it's going to be different. This time, you (the woman) will make it better, you will fix it. This time, your love is going to be enough to make it work, to make it perfect.
Again - this is a generalization, but cliches become cliches for a reason. How was her relationship with dear old Dad?
I suggest finding a woman without Daddy issues, if you can. If there are any. And no offense, kid, but you're being a bit dramatic - we all experience first love, and virtually none of us manage to make it last forever. You have learned from your relationship, take the knowledge with you into your next one and be grateful for it. Best of luck to you.
kimmy19_
