If I love her with All my heart and I think that she's the one I'm willing to spend the rest of my life with (also she has to feel the same way about me), yeah I think I would do everything I can to make it work out. But in the end, if it's a one-sided relationship it will never work out. Both lovers have to put close to equal love. It's not fair to make someone your first but they treat you as a second.
skapi