We all have a certain vision of who we want to be. There are times when we put the blame on others for our weaknesses and failures in life. For some reason, no one seems to be happy about who they are now and how their life has turned out to be. You turn out to be who you are based on how you are raised. Some of your traits you have inherited from your parents. There is nothing you can do to fight it nor change that fact. Every persons childhood story is unique, just like we are all meant to be unique. And although some things may seem like mistakes or accidents, soon you will realize that they had to happen so that you can be where you need to be.